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Obedience: It's Not for the Faint of Heart
It was 2006, and I was completing the Master of Science degree I had been working on part-time at Eastern Illinois University in...

Christie A. Cruise, PhD
Apr 30, 20213 min read


This, Is America
The International Women's Writing Guild (IWWG) published a Black Voices edition of their quarterly newsletter, Network. Our Stories,...

Christie A. Cruise, PhD
Apr 1, 20211 min read


Writing Your Narrative: Author Interview
In June 2020 I had the pleasure of being interviewed by my good friend Dr. Shemya Vaughn. Dr. Vaughn is a Licensed Professional Counselor...

Christie A. Cruise, PhD
Feb 1, 20211 min read


HOPE
When I close my eyes to pray, I see a world of possibilities. I see opportunities to begin again, not just with the start of a new year,...

Christie A. Cruise, PhD
Jan 1, 20211 min read


Not That I Speak in Respect of Want
As the year comes to a close, I am led to do as I do every year around this time, reflect. Of course, I reflect throughout the year, but...

Christie A. Cruise, PhD
Dec 1, 20202 min read


The Intentional Erasure of Black Women: Awareness, Action, & Healing
This is a repost from The Healing Collective Global - Healing Collectively Blog in August 2020. The COVID-19 pandemic has caused most of...

Christie A. Cruise, PhD
Oct 31, 20208 min read


No, No, No, No, No: The Splendor of Rejection
Erykah Badu never spoke truer words than, when right before singing Tyrone (Live), she shared with the audience, “I’m an artist and I’m...

Christie A. Cruise, PhD
Aug 31, 20202 min read


Being Black and Woman In the Academy
In June I wrote a Facebook post reflecting on my experiences as a Black woman in higher education. The response to the post was...

Christie A. Cruise, PhD
Jul 31, 20204 min read


MY BLACK IS...
This fight to end white supremacy and oppression, in all its ugly forms, is not new to Blacks in the United States of America. This is a...

Christie A. Cruise, PhD
Jun 30, 20202 min read


It Don't Hurt Now: My Journey of Self-Love & Self-Acceptance
It's been over a year since I published my first book, It Don't Hurt Now: My Journey of Self-Love & Self-Acceptance.

Christie A. Cruise, PhD
May 31, 20202 min read


Healing Our Histories
“There are only patterns, patterns on top of patterns, patterns that affect other patterns. Patterns hidden by patterns. Patterns within...

Christie A. Cruise, PhD
May 1, 20203 min read


Life After Losing a Loved One: Grief
I thought I knew grief. I had met its acquaintance in 1990 and 1991 when I lost two cousins, one from a long-term illness and the other...

Christie A. Cruise, PhD
Apr 1, 20202 min read


It's Spring! Time to Clean. And Be A Blessing While Doing It!
The vast majority of my blog posts focus on self-love because this is an important topic to me. I also write quite a bit about "letting...

Christie A. Cruise, PhD
Mar 1, 20203 min read


Want The Ultimate Valentine's Day? Date Yourself!
You're at arms reach But baby, where are you? ...'Cause I'm lonely Whenever you're around Whenever You're Around - Jill Scott You know...

Christie A. Cruise, PhD
Feb 1, 20202 min read


1 Resolution YOU SHOULD Make (& Keep): Love Thy Self!
"What's your motivation? How you gon' add to me? Yeah, uh? How you gon' add to me?" I feel you, Ledisi. That's my question in the new...

Christie A. Cruise, PhD
Jan 1, 20203 min read


Finding Peace In the Midst of These Storms
I don't know about you, but I find the news overwhelming, even depressing at times. Mass shootings, sexual assault, racial injustice,...

Christie A. Cruise, PhD
Sep 5, 20192 min read


Talking About Self-Love Y'all
Last month I had the wonderful experience of delivering my very first author talk. I was in my favorite city at a really cool cafe and...

Christie A. Cruise, PhD
Aug 2, 20191 min read


Who Has Your Back (And Your Front)?
Who you allow in your inner circle is a reflection of how you feel about yourself. Do you have kind, trustworthy, encouraging,...

Christie A. Cruise, PhD
Jun 25, 20192 min read


Falling In Love with Myself
It was four years ago this past March that my for better or for worse came to an end. My then husband and I had been separated for 7...

Christie A. Cruise, PhD
May 31, 20193 min read


The Equation for Success: Self-love + Self-trust = (Listening to) Your Intuition
"Your first mind is your God mind." I heard this phrase often growing up. It wasn't until I was an adult in my early 30's that I...

Christie A. Cruise, PhD
May 2, 20192 min read
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